fix(qoder): address review findings

Correctness:
- testUtils: drop checkExpiry so the userinfo URL probe actually runs (revoked
  tokens used to look "active" until local 30-day expiry passed)
- auth.parseExpiry: handle numeric expiresAt, swap parseInt before Date.parse
  so "2026" doesn't get interpreted as year-2026, treat expires_in:0 as
  already-expired instead of fabricating a 30-day default
- providers.mapTokens: synthesize email from userId when fetchUserInfo fails
  so OAuth dedup works (re-logins no longer accumulate "Account N" rows)

SSE wrapper:
- wrapQoderSSE: add !doneEmitted guard on success branch (chunks could leak
  past [DONE] when an error envelope shared a TCP packet with a valid one)
- flush(): finalize TextDecoder + drain trailing buffer so the chunk carrying
  finish_reason is delivered when upstream closes without a final \n
- sanitize literal \n inside inner OpenAI body so SSE framing stays intact

Robustness:
- executor: wrap buildCosyHeaders in try/catch so a missing accessToken
  returns 401 (re-auth) instead of bubbling as 500
- executor: short-circuit on missing accessToken before signing
- executor: plumb proxyOptions/signal through buildQoderRequestBody so
  proxy-only networks can fetch the model_config catalog
- qoderModels: dedupe concurrent first-time misses with an in-flight Promise
  map (parallel chat windows now do 1 upstream fetch instead of N)
- qoderModels: check signal.aborted before addEventListener so a pre-aborted
  parent signal cancels the inner fetch immediately
- auth: AbortController + 15s timeout on pollDeviceToken / fetchUserInfo to
  prevent hung sockets when openapi.qoder.sh stalls mid-response

UX:
- OAuthModal: derive polling deadline from device-code expires_in (qoder
  publishes 300s; the previous fixed 120s caused timeouts when users took
  more than 2 minutes on the consent page)

Cleanup:
- delete src/lib/oauth/services/qoder.js — referenced removed config fields
  (clientId/clientSecret/tokenUrl/authorizeUrl) and was re-exported from
  services/index.js, so any future caller would TypeError on first use

src/app/api/providers/[id]/test/testUtils.js

@@ -63,11 +63,13 @@ const OAUTH_TEST_CONFIG = {
   kiro: { checkExpiry: true, refreshable: true },
   qoder: {
     // Test by hitting Qoder's userinfo endpoint with the device token.
+    // refreshable: false because the device-flow refresh endpoint returns
+    // 403 for our flow (users re-login when expired). No checkExpiry —
+    // we want the actual URL probe to run so revoked tokens surface.
     url: "https://openapi.qoder.sh/api/v1/userinfo",
     method: "GET",
     authHeader: "Authorization",
     authPrefix: "Bearer ",
-    checkExpiry: true,
     refreshable: false,
   },
   "kimi-coding": { checkExpiry: true, refreshable: false },